Waiting Intentionally

Waiting doesn’t have to feel like a holding pattern. When done with intention, it becomes a season of purpose.

Waiting Intentionally is a five-day devotional retreat designed for Christian singles who long for marriage but refuse to settle. Through Scripture, honest storytelling, and guided prayers, Olatomi and Olatomidé Asher walk with you through the valleys of delay and disappointment—into wide-open spaces of hope, clarity, and spiritual growth.

Over five powerful days, you will:

• Rediscover your identity as a beloved child of God
• Release shame and embrace forgiveness
• Cultivate discernment for godly decisions
• Learn patience without slipping into passivity
• Root your expectations in Christ, not culture

In a world urging you to “follow your heart” and prioritise self over the Spirit, this retreat offers a grounded, faith-filled alternative. It will steady your heart, strengthen your trust in Jesus, and prepare you to receive a love story written by God Himself.

You may not receive exactly what you imagined, but you will be equipped when destiny calls—because God’s gifts are always better than our best plans.

Whether you’re 22 or 42, Waiting Intentionally invites you to exchange anxiety for anticipation and partner with God in preparing for a relationship worth the wait.

Stop counting the days. Start preparing for destiny.

About the author
Olatomi (Tomi) and Olatomidé (Asher) are a married, Kingdom-focused duo based in Adelaide, South Australia. Global professionals and Bible teachers, they have driven technology, strategy, and market-growth initiatives across Africa, Australia, Asia, and North America, turning every boardroom, classroom, and pulpit into a stage for Christ’s excellence and an invitation to Kingdom life.

Their shared story began at a crossroads: Tomi was bound for Hillsong College in Sydney, while Asher had just accepted a place in Oxford’s global business program. Choosing obedience over ambition, they discovered that intentional waiting is the bridge between desire and destiny. Today they mentor urban Christian singles, lead prayer retreats, and champion authentic Kingdom living in both ministry and the marketplace.